If You’re Waiting on a Text, You’re Already Getting Your Answer

by Catherine Josephine | The Love Priestess™

What does it mean when he takes hours... or days...
to respond to your message?

When he replies like he forgot you texted at all —
or worse, dodges what you said and sends something casual like nothing happened?

It could mean he's busy.
It could mean he’s distracted.
It could mean absolutely anything.

But here’s what it definitely means:
 💔 You are not a priority.

And if that feels harsh, ask yourself:
How long do you want to keep justifying the behavior that keeps hurting you?

You’re not asking for too much.
You’re asking for basic respect.

A message left on “read” isn’t neutral. It’s information.

Consistent communication is how secure people build connection.

⏳ When someone ignores your emotional bids long enough, your nervous system learns to brace instead of open.

That’s not a relationship.
That’s emotional limbo.
It feels unsafe.

Could he be playing games to create longing in you?
Yes, and that’s manipulation, not mystery.

Could he be a kind person with poor communication skills?
Sure, but why is your nervous system always the one paying the price for someone else’s lack of presence?

You are not too sensitive.
You are not overreacting.
You are finally seeing clearly.

If you constantly feel confused, anxious, or unsure about where you stand…
It’s not love. It’s a pattern.

And the longer you entertain it, the more you delay the love that’s actually meant for you.

You deserve someone who texts back with care.
Who responds to your emotional truth.
Who doesn’t make you sit in silence while you spiral with self-doubt.

Stop spinning stories.
Stop waiting on someone who won’t meet you halfway.
Stop mistaking crumbs for connection.
You don’t need a reason.
You need a standard.

🌹 This is what I help my clients break free from — emotional limbo, anxious attachment, and unavailable dynamics masked as chemistry.

If you’re tired of waiting, wondering, and settling for “maybes,” let’s talk about what it looks like to choose clarity, commitment, and self-worth. Whenever you are ready, you can take your power back. 

A man who truly loves and adores you, will not ignore you. He will worry if he doesn't hear from you.

This weekend a young man told my daughter that when he didn't hear back from his ex after a couple days, he was worried about her. He checked in on her to see if she was alright. His now ex was ghosting him because she intended to break up with him. 

Rejection is God's protection. 

Sometimes we are veiled because God knows that the man or woman meant for us is on their way. 

Sometimes God covers us until we are ready to meet our true love at their level. 

People can only love us as much as they love themselves, and we can only love them as much as we love ourself. 

How are you loving yourself today? 

I offer 1:1 private coaching for both women and men ready to deepen their relationship with love, intimacy, and emotional truth.

Whether you're seeking to soften into your feminine, strengthen your masculine presence, heal your past, or call in a more conscious relationship…

This work is for the soul who knows love is meant to be more than what you've experienced so far.

 Consultation Call with Catherine 

You’re not too much.
You’re not too late.
And you’re not meant to walk this path alone.

Your Path To Soulmate Love Begins Here

Choose Your Path

Because waiting isn’t harmless.
It’s the slowest form of heartbreak there is.

Your Journey Begins Here.

With devotion,

xoxo love, Catherine

The Love Priestess

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